The dumbing down...

You know I've heard if you want to make friend, dress better and act dumber. Well, this blog is not about dressing up anything or acting a certain way. This is just simply a way to express myself. You may like it, you may not. Chances are most people I know will never read this and that's ok too.

Where to being...the things that shape us.

When we were young we were told to just go introduce ourselves to other kids in order to make friends. Our parents not believing for one second that the rest of the world could possibly not find us as interesting and lovable as they did. In reality though, I think most kids are being set up for failure from a young age. How often do you just go introduce yourself to others now? Just out of the blue walk up and say "Hi, I'm Stephanie. Can I be your friend?" People would think you're nuts. In truth, we make friends by random connections that seem to unravel and bloom into relationships. Some forever but most are temporary.(whether we know it or not)
See, when we are young we are told to love ourselves the way we are. That being unique is a good trait and that everyone is special. Once those poor innocent children take one step off that Sesame Street curb into reality they find out far to quickly that isn't the case. So this brings forth the question, How do we adequately prepare our children (and ourselves) for all the torment that comes with being an individual?

Now, of course, there is not right or wrong answer on how to achieve this because chances are none of us will and in fact it probably isn't even possible. And even if we do succeed in making our children unique yet impenetrable by torment we won't know it until their grown. But my guess is that if your child is as cookie cutter as can be they may not get teased, as much. Well, who wants their child to be a cookie cutter? It's a double edged sword to be sure. On one hand you don't want your child to be teased by gangs of children for being different, yet you want to embrace that side of your child that is different because that actually IS what makes them special. Of course, they won't appreciate that for years to come.

Does anyone ever really feel like they fit in?


I forgot how amazing a good rant could be.
And I apologize for not being a entertaining as my male counterpart.